Services

I offer individual coaching programs to adults 35+, as well as consultation, speaking, & education opportunities. My knowledge base integrates brain & cognitive science, mindfulness practices, and psychological well-being research. I emphasize resiLIEnt (a 7-part framework) living as a lasting approach for reducing stress.

All coaching programs entail a systematic approach to:


Identify your priority needs, challenges, and gifts

Gain insight around how your unique brain functioning tendencies impact how you’re living

Analyze the mental and situational obstacles holding you back

Clarify your current & ideal supports

Create & adjust (as needed) your personalized progress plan


I use various assessments to help illuminate patterns, as well as a structured inquiry process + reflection.
Clients are given between-session assignments to keep their learning active and grounded in real life.

Coaching | Awareness Program

A fundamental aspect of Resilient living is knowing how to keep yourself adequately resourced through a responsive practice of self-care for enhancing energy.

This 6-week program is designed to help you: reduce overwhelm, enhance your self-care practices, & gain a deeper understanding about how your body and mind function best. In addition, you will become aware of your personal Touchstone Tactics for getting yourself “back on track” quickly to avoid future overwhelm.

Coaching | Growth Program

Resilient brain wellness requires additional insight around your brain wiring tendencies, to properly care for how you function. We now know how what we think, feel, & do are interconnected to shape how we live.

In this 9-week program, you will discover your personal strengths for overcoming obstacles to cultivate a way of life that best supports you in handling ongoing stress- what keeps you clear, strong, & ready.

Our work together will culminate in a life navigation plan offering: greater understanding of your wholeness, customized Success Strategies for managing your biggest concerns, & the adoption of genuine success habits to improve how you live.

Coaching | Flow Program

Deeply hidden “schemas”/limiting beliefs can undermine your full functioning by obscuring your truth. They sow the seeds of feeling like you "can’t”, keeping parts of yourself hidden, and believing “I’m too ___”.  These can be self-generated or received as messages from others.

In this 6-week advanced program (completion of the Personal Growth program is required), we identify your unique schemas, and explore their impact on your whole-person functioning. We rework unhelpful thoughts, as well as test new possibilities for thinking, feeling, & behaving.

By the end, you will have clarity about how you function best. You will know how to go with YOUR flow more resiliently, by embodying your Essentials, recognizing the signs that discerning action is needed, and properly preparing for your next best steps. Please note that this is not therapy; it's goal-directed coaching to help you integrate Resilient Living principles into your life.

Consultation & Education

Leilani enjoys sharing research to help others grow. Some recent presentations and classes:

"Getting Clear About Brain Fog & Brain Health"

"Resilient Living: Power of the Brain"

"Preventing Decision Fatigue with a Resilient Habit of Mind" (Invited Keynote)

"Wonder and the Brain: Reconnect with Life"

Audiences include the City of Eugene community; Aging &Amazing and Caregiver Wellness Retreats members, Stonegate Village residents, and the Aging Life Care Association (ALCA).

The Natural Capacities YouTube channel also contains short educational videos.

Group Work

Work in community to function better. Engage in facilitated self-learning, practice, and group activities to ignite insights & make supportive connections.

4-week Invitation to Self-Care Practice

FAQ (Frequently Asked Questions)

It’s a collaborative partnership to help you enhance one or more aspects of your life (including work). Together we uncover, envision, plan, take action, and refine the approach to move you toward where you want to be.

For as long as you’d like! The coaching programs I offer are 6- or 9- weeks; client continuation session bundles (e.g., 4 or 6 sessions within six months) are also available at a reduced rate to more flexibly continue our work together.

Typical sessions run about 50 minutes (the first one, however, may be longer based on the program). I will ask you probing questions, listen, and depending on the focus, may also share information or insights to co-create a beneficial path forward. There will be assignments for you to do between sessions, such as tracking progress, reflecting, or completing a worksheet. As coach, I am your thinking partner. My goal is to support you in reaching your goals, so it is not uncommon to also communicate via email between sessions, depending on our work.

When I support you as a consultant, our work is more expertise-driven to meet your needs. I can coach & consult with the same client, but I avoid doing so within the same session, because they involve different approaches.

Like counseling, life coaching is inquiry-based & focuses on matters of life. But, in counseling, the past is used to directly inform the present; in coaching, the present is used to directly inform the future. Coaching is goal-directed and outcomes-oriented. Counseling is diagnostic and process-oriented to facilitate healing.

My coaching programs start at $750 (and installment payments are available). Consultation offers will vary, based on individual need. Costs associated with speaking & group work will depend on the specific engagement.

Although I can’t change how your brain functions, I can help you change how you function with your brain- with no fixing required: (1) As a thinking “guide on the side” with working memory expertise, I can help you create doable solutions to practical problems & help you understand how to improve everyday functioning using your brain as it is. (2) I can help you transform hidden beliefs that undermine & overshadow what you CAN do into more wholesome & affirming perspectives.

Want to Stop Your Stress?

Take my 5-day Stop Your Stress Challenge! Receive a simple, emailed daily activity to help you quickly pinpoint your personal signs of overload and tactics for rapid relief. Learn how to shift your mindset and manage your stress more easily. 

We can’t always change our stressors, but we can change how we handle them!

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